Nothing to do with SEX

Young people always associate sex with relationship or relationship with sex. As if there could be no such fulfilling relationship without a satisfying sexual activities. Youngsters looked sex as the standard of having lasting and stronger romantic bond with women. Sex is desired by bigger percentage of the young.

A lot of surveys claim that majority wanted sex but sex, as it is, never became the barometer of a fulfilling life with your sexual partner. Quite true. People crave for relationship. Only sexual maniacs crave for sex.

Understandably, in a relationship you should not deny your sexual partner a gratifying sexual act. It is, however, a part of the total relationship package. Outspoken ladies even confirmed that they love and die for sexual gratification even without the blessing of matrimony. They believe that sex act can be done anytime you desire it provided in falls under the context of “being responsible enough for your own action”. Don’t do it if you can’t responsibly do it.

The most important things in sexual relationship are the intangibles. Surrendering oneself, through sexual intimacies, to someone doesn’t wholly convey true love for the person. It did mean true in the past though. True love, for me, is manifested not only in surrendering material possessions or even yourself to the one you loved. Giving him/her your valuable time matters most.

When I say, “Give him/her your time,” I don’t mean the time s/he requested you to share with him/her. I am pointing to how many times you have planned in your own to spend quality time with your partner. Or you’re just acting the otherwise? Say, you are just waiting for your partner to do the thing for both of you. “S/he is so busy with work” is a damn lame excuse. People still have personal lives to live, right?

We are no longer in a time were single gender dominated the world. Partner, as you are, must also do his/her own thing for the partnership. Be an active partner. Think, decide and act what you desire for you and for your boo. Let your initiative kicks butt.

Relationship is not paramount to sex. It, indeed, involves a lot of intangible things. One thing is initiating a plan of spending quality time with your partner without the latter’s insinuation.