I knew a man who is so in love with a woman he had met two years ago. I have been following them as their love affair unfolds from days to weeks to years…
I knew they are a good pair for even this woman is too sensitive on things, which has too little concern about their relationship. Even she has the tendency on taking things on herself without verifying their authenticity, this man had developed a great sense of understanding and had honed the value of patience.
I understand that this man knew that his lady is engulfed by the idea of jealousy. Due to this, gaining the trust of her ladylove is of paramount importance to him. It is for there were quite instances that his ladylove had alleged him of something that never had existed.
The worst thing happened when he was alleged of having an affair with a woman, Niña, whom he had met two yearx before he and his ladylove started a relationship. The allegation happened a month before their second year anniversary. His ladylove was asking a break-up from him.
The man wasn’t surprise of her move because he knew his ladylove well. What surprised him was his ladylove’s grounds or basis for turning down their relationship. Her decision was rooted on the issue of him having a relationship with Niña.
As far as I know, Niña was a friend of Glen, who happened to be a friend of this man. Niña graduated valedictorian at the local high school in year 2000. Based on Glen’s testimony, Niña had a crushed on his friend even during their college days. It was on 2001 Easter Sunday that Niña and his friend met through his invitation.
After the encounter, the two remained acquaintances even the man knew Niña’s feeling about him. There were instances that the man was tempted to court her but the two remained friends, as casual friends with no strings attached. In December 2002, Niña and her family went back to Cotabato and stayed there for good. Since then, the two had not met again and had remained friends.
The request of his ladylove doesn’t bother him for he knew she has the ever right to do it. What badgers him is the manner her ladylove reaches her decision. The man had observed for many instances that his ladylove had made decisions on gut feelings and on the words of other people. She always came to a conclusion without even digging further into the issue or verifying “tell tales” of people around her.
I understand that it’s difficult to believe the statement of the person whom we think had caused you this terrible feeling. Yet it’s unlikely also to just believe on what other people are saying. It always safe to see and find out for yourself what is the real truth so you can make judgment of whom you’re gonna believe.
In short, it is always a good idea “not to quickly buy what other people are saying yet to discover for ourselves the real truth so we will know who is lying.” Beware that quickly buying somebody’s ideas might bring us to peril or danger in the end.
I do hope that it would not be too late for the love affair of this couple to change and resolves things out before their “love train” will go out of its track. It is always a sad part to this man to see his ladylove suffers pain, which actually not caused by him but by small lapse in judgment or understanding of the issue confronting any of them.
May GOD guide them in their decisions always. GOD bless the two of them.
